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儿子在一所重点中学上高三，离高考还有一个多月，真的进入了倒计时。
儿子学的是文科，经常要背一些课文，看着他念念有词的样子，说实话我们做家长的心里很是紧张。儿子是一个非常好强的孩子，高中三年，他的成绩在班级中总是遥遥领先，所以他对自己一直比较自信。为了不把紧张情绪传染给孩子，在他背书的时候我们从来都不去打扰他。但儿子还是看出了我们的心思，故作轻松地说：“我都不紧张，你们担心什么？”这下，我和妻子焦躁的心终于平静下来。二人悄悄开了一次家庭会议“决定”：要给儿子创造一个宽松的复习环境，不给他太多的心理负担。我还特别跟妻子强调：“和孩子交代事情，嘱咐可以，但别唠叨起来没完。”
以后我们极少提到“高考”二字，只是在平时注意收集和考试有关的信息和经验。每天上班时，我都会买上几份刊登有高考经验的报纸，然后将其中对儿子有借鉴作用的内容在晚上吃饭的时候讲给他听，讲多少看儿子的情绪。如果儿子情绪好，我会多介绍一点，否则会立即打住。在饮食上我们也没给儿子搞特殊化，我认为自家的伙食一直都不错，每顿饭都有荤有素，每天都有新鲜水果，营养搭配，假如刻意改变反而会给儿子敏感的心加压。
二模考试，儿子发挥得不好，有点闷闷不乐，开始对自己产生一些怀疑。看儿子情绪低落的样子，不用问也知道考试没考好。在临近高考的时候，我觉得儿子的这种自我怀疑很有可能是致命的。我安慰他说：“不要给自己太大压力，高考只是对于你高中学习的一次检验，只要你真正努力了，不管结果怎样，爸妈都不会怪你，你自己也不应该觉得有什么遗憾。”说完就拉着他去吃晚饭，然后聊聊社会上的事，给儿子的坏心情“打了个岔”。后来每次碰到儿子做试卷不顺利的时候，我都告诉儿子，“从来都没有常胜的将军，偶尔的失误并不代表什么，即使最后考砸了也没关系，无论你上什么学校，你都是我们最优秀的儿子！”这样的“语言疗法”对于儿子非常有效，儿子的心态一步步得到了放松。
为使儿子以最好的状态走进考场，我有时吆喝儿子出去打球、散步。儿子上完晚自习回家后，也不像以前那样还花一个小时的时间拼命复习了，而是打开电脑听着歌、看着动漫，悠然自在。这哪像要高考了，分明是在休闲。但我们从不阻止他，因为我们知道，儿子从早晨六点就到校学习，一直到晚上九点半，去掉吃饭时间，一天要学习十几个小时呢。每天经过高强度的学习，回家后如果还硬逼着他再复习到深更半夜，如是睡眠不足，势必影响第二天的学习，这就得不偿失了。
再过几天儿子就要走进高考战场了，我想对儿子说，爸爸相信你早就准备好了，高考并不可怕，它只是人生所要经历的一次考试而已。与高考本身相比，更重要的是这场经历，经过即是获得。给自己一份挑战，树立一份信心，准备迎接即将到来的全新生活。
陪儿子应战高考，我们紧张并快乐着。
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