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儿子是今年高考大军中的一员。为引导儿子顺利度过人生的关键期,以健康的身体、愉快的心情参加高考,我特向单位请了年休假,专门在家做好他的“后勤部长”,陪他一起备战高考。

每天早上6点,我就起床开始了一天的忙碌。一日之计在于晨,早餐关键是营养丰富、热量充足。儿子平时爱吃的早餐是馄饨鸡蛋粉丝,把水烧开,打入鸡蛋,鸡蛋凝固成型后,下馄饨入锅,馄饨漂浮后,加进粉丝、青菜,待开锅沸腾后,撒上葱花、香菜、生抽、食盐调味后,一碗美味可口营养全面的馄饨鸡蛋粉丝出炉了。去上学时,我还给他带上一块巧克力或两块饼干和一瓶酸奶,在上午10点钟下课时吃,补充体力。

除了强壮的身体,保持乐观的心态也是必需的。晚饭后,我们一家三口一起去外面散散步,打打羽毛球,相互沟通,让儿子把压力和苦恼说出来,但为了不给儿子增加压力,很少提及考试和学习。

有一次,儿子模拟考试没考好,回家后脸色一直不好。于是晚饭时我故意和他找话说,还特地讲了一个笑话。儿子笑过之后,对我和老公说:“爸爸妈妈,这月模拟考试没考好,如果我高考也像这次月考一样发挥失常,连二本都考不上,那怎么办啊?我会觉得对不起你们的。”

这时,老公附和说:“是啊,这次成绩好像不太理想啊。但没事,一次小考算什么呀!”我也故作轻松地说:“孩子,一切只要尽心尽力,就无怨无悔。现在你只要放下‘怕考砸’的心理包袱,以正常水平发挥,就一定能够考出理想的成绩来。再退一步说,就是高考没考上也没关系,你仍是爸妈的骄傲。爸妈想让你考上大学,但更希望你平安快乐。”

儿子终于很开心地笑了,笑得灿烂阳光。第二天放学回家后,儿子自信地对我和老公说:“高考并不可怕,用平常心对待,我有信心面对高考。”

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